How to Get What You Want

It seems like such a strange concept, but when you give away what you want -- you really do get more of it.

We're living proof. And here's why...

We have an incredible relationship filled with lots of love, passion and a deep connection with each other and with our creator.

Our relationships weren't always like this. In fact our previous relationships were in many ways a mirror for what we didn't want.

Before getting together, totally independent of each other, we each decided we were willing to do whatever was necessary to create the relationship of our dreams.

Out of our passion to have this incredible relationship, we read every book, went to every seminar, listened to every tape and spent countless hours talking about and discussing relationships trying to figuring out what it takes to create the relationship of our dreams.

So what did we do next?

We began giving love away.

Out of our own passion for love, connection and having a great relationship--we began sharing with others what we had discovered.

As a result of our desire to "give love away" and share with others what we've learned about love, relationships and happiness, not only has our own relationship grown deeper and more connected but our bank account has grown as well.

People started asking us what we did to create such a great relationship.

So in 1999 we started an online newsletter on relationships and personal growth.

We simply shared tips and ideas we used to create a great relationship.

In other words we gave away what we most wanted: Love.

Now, almost 20,000 people get our free weekly Relationship Gold newsletter.

We've also written three books on relationships including Communication Magic, Should You Stay or Should You Go? and Creating Relationship Magic. We have two others planned.

We're not counselors or therapists. We simply share from our hearts and lives what we know about love and relationships that we wish we'd known years ago.

What we have is so great that we want others to know how they can have it too.

We have discovered that just like money, there is an abundance of love that is there wanting to be tapped into.

We just have to be willing to be open to it.

What we wanted more than anything else was a deep, connected, loving relationship.

We are now happy to say that with each other we have the kind of relationship that we want.

As a result of "giving love away" --- we're not only getting love back --- but, now we're being rewarded with financial abundance as well.

This is an abundant universe we live in.

Give, Give, Give.

There will be more where that came from.

Susie and Otto Collins are Relationship Coaches, Authors and married Life Partners from Ohio. For more info on their books, tapes, seminars or to sign up for their free weekly Relationship Gold online newsletter, visit their websites at www.collinspartners.com or www.RelationshipGold.com

如何得到你想要的

这乍看起来是一个相当奇怪的概念 —— 把你想要得到的东西布施出去，你就会得到的更多。

我们（作者指他们自己：Susie 和 Otto 夫妇）就是活生生的例子；原因如下：

我们之间的关系充满了爱和激情；我们也体会着和造物主之间的深刻联系。

但我们并不是一开始就如此。实际上，我们过去的关系在很多方面简直是我们所不希望的东西的一面镜子。

在我们走到一起之前，我们各自独立的做出决意：我们一定要尽一切力量，创造一种我们所梦想的关系。

怀着创建一种不可思议的美妙关系的激情，我们阅读了每一本相关的书，参加所有可能的短训班，聆听所有能买到的磁带，并花了无数的时间讨论和探索创建美好关系的方法。

我们最终找到的方法是什么呢？

我们布施爱。

发自我们对爱、亲情和拥有美妙关系的激情，我们开始与他人共享我们的发现。

通过我们“布施爱”的行为，和与人分享我们关于爱、关系和幸福的心得，不仅我们之间的关系越来越深刻和密切，我们银行账号上的积蓄也在不断增长。

人们开始向我们询问：你们是如何创建美好关系的呢？

于是，从1999年开始，我们创办了一个主题为“关系和个人成长”的在线电子通讯。

我们与大家分享我们关于创建美好关系的心得和体会。

换句话说，我们在布施我们最需要的东西——爱。

现在，大约已经有20,000人每周可以收到我们的《黄金关系》电子周刊。

我们还写了三本关于“关系”的书，包括《沟通魔术》，《你应该走还是应该留？》，以及《创造关系的魔术》。另外还有两本书在计划之中。

我们不是咨询师或治疗师。我们只是真诚的将我们关于爱和关系的心得与大家分享；我真的希望我早几年就知道这些方法——他们太奇妙了，所以我们希望所有的人都能够知道和应用这些心得。

我们发现，就和金钱一样，无尽的爱正等待着我们。

我们要做的，就是要敞开自己的心灵去拥抱它。

我们对深切的关爱关系的需求，超越于我们所有的其它需求之上。

我们现在可以幸福的说：我们相互之间拥有这种我们所想要的关系。

作为“布施爱”的结果，我们不仅仅收获了“爱”，我们还收获了金钱的富足。

我们生活在一个富足的宇宙。

布施，布施，布施。

从那来源之处，必将涌出更多。

Susie 和 Otto Collins 夫妇，是 Ohio 州的关系学导师，作家。如果您希望了解更多他们的著作、音带或短训班，或注册他们的《黄金关系》电子通讯，请到：www.collinspartners.com 或 www.RelationshipGold.com